Human Design Gate 36: The Gate of Crisis – Embracing Compassion in Times of Emotional Turbulence
- Jo Tunderman
- Mar 13
- 4 min read

Gate 36, also known as The Gate of Crisis, is an energy that navigates the cycles of emotional decline and growth, where crises are seen as natural, but not permanent states. Located in the Emotional Solar Plexus Center, this gate connects to the Throat Center through Gate 35, forming a channel that allows for the expression of emotional waves and the processing of emotional crises.
At the heart of Gate 36 is the fear of inadequacy, a fear that often arises during periods of emotional turbulence or when experiencing a sense of decline. This energy deals with emotional cycles, where difficulties are seen as temporary stages leading to personal growth. The challenge is to overcome feelings of inadequacy and to learn to handle emotional crises with compassion and empathy, both for yourself and others.
Exploring Gate 36 of crisis
Gate 36 embodies a deep emotional sensitivity, where crisis becomes an inevitable part of the emotional journey. It’s an energy that requires you to navigate periods of emotional decline, not as signs of failure, but as integral stages in a larger cycle of growth and renewal. Compassion becomes a powerful tool to move through these emotional lows, both for yourself and for others.
At its highest expression, Gate 36 provides the ability to see the humanity in yourself and others, offering empathy and understanding during times of emotional crisis. It understands that suffering is part of being human, and through this understanding, it is able to soothe unnecessary suffering and help others move through emotional turmoil with grace. Compassion becomes the key to overcoming feelings of inadequacy.
However, when Gate 36 is out of alignment, it can lead to a lack of self-compassion and empathy for others. You may find yourself holding unrealistic expectations, particularly during emotional or sexual crises, leading to feelings of inadequacy. There can be a tendency to beat yourself up, create emotional drama, and feel overwhelmed by the emotional ups and downs that come with this energy.
Why Gate 36 Matters
Gate 36 is a profound reminder that emotional crises are not only a natural part of life, but also an essential component of growth. This gate teaches us that compassion is the most powerful tool we have to overcome feelings of inadequacy and emotional turbulence. When aligned, this energy allows us to move through difficult emotional cycles with patience and understanding, knowing that these moments are not permanent.
At its core, Gate 36 asks us to:
Embrace emotional crises – Accept that periods of decline are part of the emotional cycle and trust that they will eventually lead to personal growth.
Cultivate compassion – Be kind and compassionate to yourself and others during times of emotional struggle, recognizing that everyone faces their own challenges.
Overcome feelings of inadequacy – Release the pressure to be perfect, and embrace the imperfections that come with being human.
Gate 36 teaches that it is in times of emotional crisis that we have the opportunity to show the most humanity and to step into the highest expression of compassion for ourselves and others.
The Dance of Crisis and Compassion
The energy of Gate 36 can often be misunderstood as chaotic or negative, but in reality, it is a powerful force for emotional healing and growth. Crises—whether emotional, mental, or relational—are seen not as failures, but as natural phases that offer us the opportunity to understand ourselves and others more deeply.
When in alignment, Gate 36 offers the ability to see emotional crises through a lens of compassion, recognizing the suffering as a shared human experience. It invites you to hold space for yourself and others during times of emotional turbulence, knowing that empathy is the path forward.
However, when out of balance, this energy can lead to emotional drama, self-criticism, and a tendency to hold yourself to impossible standards. This can lead to a lack of emotional relaxation, creating a cycle of stress and emotional overreaction.
Key Reflections for Gate 36
How do you handle emotional crises? Do you embrace them as opportunities for growth, or do you resist them with feelings of inadequacy?
In times of emotional turbulence, do you show compassion to yourself and others, or do you become critical and overwhelmed?
How can you move beyond the fear of inadequacy and release the pressure to be perfect during difficult emotional times?
How can you cultivate a practice of empathy and patience during emotional cycles, knowing that they will pass in time?
Gate 36 in Your Human Design
Defined Gate 36: If Gate 36 is defined in your chart, you are naturally attuned to the emotional cycles that others may struggle to navigate. You can offer profound empathy and compassion during times of crisis, both for yourself and others. You have an innate ability to see the bigger picture in emotional turmoil, understanding that these crises are temporary stages that lead to growth. However, your challenge is to avoid falling into emotional drama or beating yourself up when things are not going smoothly.
Undefined Gate 36: If Gate 36 is undefined, you may experience fluctuating emotional responses to crises and may be more susceptible to the emotional waves of others. You could find yourself struggling with feelings of inadequacy or emotional drama, particularly when others around you are in emotional turmoil. It's important for you to create boundaries and trust that emotional cycles are temporary, allowing yourself to move through them with compassion rather than reacting to them.
Embracing the Energy of Gate 36
To fully embrace the energy of Gate 36, we must learn to meet emotional crises with compassion and understanding, both for ourselves and for others. This gate invites us to:
Cultivate compassion during emotional lows, embracing the humanity in both yourself and those around you.
Understand emotional cycles as temporary stages of growth, where every challenge offers an opportunity for learning.
Release feelings of inadequacy by accepting that we all face difficulties and that emotional ups and downs are part of the human experience.
By embracing the wisdom of Gate 36, we can move through life’s emotional turbulence with grace, trusting that every crisis is an opportunity for growth and deeper empathy.
How does the energy of Gate 36 resonate with you? How do you deal with emotional crises in yourself and others?
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